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Post by Xteenuh on Sept 30, 2010 5:53:39 GMT
Oh my god, I'm being creeped on so hardcore by a bisexual Quidditch player who apparently has a girlfriend but APPARENTLY DISREGARDS THAT and makes extraordinarily suggestive comments over facebook. And I totally don't know how to work my way around this.
Once again, I ask myself the question, WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE SUCH HORRIBLE LUCK?!
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Post by lastgoodbye on Sept 30, 2010 13:00:58 GMT
How does he play Quidditch!?
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Post by Xteenuh on Sept 30, 2010 13:08:42 GMT
Here in America, colleges have Quidditch teams! Hilarious, right? My favorite thing about it is that the snitch is a fast guy dressed in yellow/gold. I thought about joining the Quidditch team here but decided against it. And we're not quite as prestigious here at RIT because the team just started last year. Also, apparently this guy who's creepin' on me is our team's Keeper. BUT HE IS DEFINITELY NO RON WEASLEY.
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Post by newslang on Sept 30, 2010 13:27:55 GMT
I saw an ad for a pick up game of Quidditch at my school once a week. It said "Bring your own broom" ... I don't know if they're still doing it now, but I'm tempted to walk by to see. I feel it would be much more lame than the amazingness in that video
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Post by lastgoodbye on Sept 30, 2010 15:18:07 GMT
THAT'S SO AMAZING
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Post by Rhiflect on Sept 30, 2010 17:56:13 GMT
A MA ZING Only in America. I NEED to show Anna this Join the team pleeeease! oh and just ignore him man! And use your acerbic wit/common sense/the fact that he's clearly a cheating douche bag to ward him off
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Post by Xteenuh on Sept 30, 2010 19:24:15 GMT
The thing is, it's going to be a little hard to ignore him considering he hangs out with my friends here and they're all like yeah man, this is our posse/crew!! Oh goddamn.
And I dunno if it's too late for me to join the team, but they do send me e-mails about games and activities, it's more of a club here than it is an actual "team" I think, but they're playing another big local school next weekend... I kind of want to go watch, BUT HE'S GOING TO BE THERE AND WILL RUIN QUIDDITCH FOR ME NOOOOOOO
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Post by Rhiflect on Sept 30, 2010 21:46:00 GMT
That is a quibble indeed! Do your friends know he's a bit odd? And just say no, will that work? Unlucky my friend
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Post by allison on Oct 1, 2010 8:52:28 GMT
i've got myself into a mess. the past year i've been dating this one guy on and off and on and off and now we're off for good, but he sleeps over on weekends cause he works in the city (his house is across the bay). we don't do anything, we're just friends, but - - - now there's a new boy. that the old boy doesn't know about (cause i'm a bitch). and here comes the weekend. . . ! also, old boy is. . . like, sensitive? well i've hurt him A LOT and feel mad guilty for it. and i feel mad guilty for getting into a really intense relationship so soon, when he 'hasn't yet recovered' (his words). so. shitty, allison.
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Post by victorinox on Oct 2, 2010 17:14:16 GMT
allison, that sounds complicated and i sympathize that you're tangled.
so i started dating my friend like a fortnight ago, with the preface "i've been in a lot of lame love shit i kind of just want to have fun and if this is good that's good, but if it's awkward someone has to eject." a few days later he had a party at his house and i got really drunk and freaked out, and realized i don't like us being a couple. it's pretty obvious that he likes me more than i like him, and that scares me.
i don't want to hurt him, but i feel like it's intrinsically wrong to be in an unequal relationship- or, one that you don't feel love in. i feel pretty indifferent when we're kissing etc. i want us to be friends again without it being weird. and since he's been romantically involved with another person in our social group, that seems plausible.
i'm bad at this. :{
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Post by Lawrence on Oct 3, 2010 10:44:32 GMT
I'm fed up of being the kind of guy who's always a good friend to girls. Why can nobody fancy me? urgh
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Post by thedreaming on Oct 3, 2010 21:34:34 GMT
i don't want to hurt him, but i feel like it's intrinsically wrong to be in an unequal relationship- or, one that you don't feel love in. i feel pretty indifferent when we're kissing etc. i want us to be friends again without it being weird. and since he's been romantically involved with another person in our social group, that seems plausible. THIS. I was in this exact relationship last year- indifferent when kissing, NO chemistry whatsoever, but he was pretty excited about it. I let it drag on waaayyy to long due to apathy and the whole thing imploded in a very bad way. Based on my experience, I would say break it off as gently as possible as soon as possible- things will most likely be awkward for a little while, but it'll be less messy than waiting until you just can't stand it anymore.
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Post by jadeface on Oct 4, 2010 6:42:24 GMT
^ BUT, maybe give it a bit more time? I'm not saying any of you are, but I was always a massive commitmentphobe, and rejected pretty much all of my boyfriends because of 'feeling less into it than they were' and being intimidated and freaked out by how they feel for me. I have been going out with 'this one' (haha) for 3 and a half years, and I'm pretty sure I freaked out before I did and thought, nah I don't want a relationship I don't want to have to do all the introducing stuff blahblah.
SAYING THAT. It's never good having someone cling onto you, saying I love you after like a day and things like that, so awkward. It's like 'Yeah, you too..." haha. I broke up with that boyfriend and when we all went to a party he was hysterically crying on the stairs. Embarassing. Oh to be 17 again.
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Post by Rhiflect on Oct 4, 2010 18:46:29 GMT
Lawrence, don't give up hope already! She might see a different side to you, and of course someone will fancy you soon Victoria, that;s such a rough situation. I'd take these guys ^ advice, it seems pretty sound. Be gentle, but there's an extent where you're hurting yourself so much it's not worth it!
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Post by jay on Oct 9, 2010 16:15:11 GMT
not been on here for a while due to relationship problemz. i am currently trying to dump my boyfriend but he doesn't want to accept it and keeps asking me for reasons why i'm unhappy and i'm just getting more and more upset and frustrated. what makes this worse is that i really do love him, i just...can't see him changing or treating me better arrrrrrggggggh.
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Post by lastgoodbye on Oct 9, 2010 18:32:14 GMT
Awh, Jay. Stay strong <3
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Post by Rhiflect on Oct 10, 2010 15:54:32 GMT
Oh jay, that sounds rotten you know what's best and you have to follow what you want and need. Big love jaybird <3
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Post by mimicry on Oct 10, 2010 21:22:57 GMT
Aw, Jay! You deserve to be happy. xx
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Post by newslang on Oct 11, 2010 15:28:25 GMT
Hope you're okay, Jay! You have to go with what you feel is right, even if it's hard
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Post by jay on Oct 11, 2010 23:37:42 GMT
ughhhhh hate myself even more for posting that whingy shit on here and then taking him back. hope things work this time.
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