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Post by Lawrence on Aug 11, 2010 0:44:45 GMT
oh no, why?
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Post by newslang on Aug 11, 2010 1:41:24 GMT
The situation has been resolved since I posted that (I know it was like half an hour ago). Long story but I maybe jumped to conclusions a bit too fast and mistook nerves for dislike. (read: I sucked up my pride and asked him out after turning him down, and he said yes)
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Post by Lawrence on Aug 11, 2010 2:33:16 GMT
aw yay! I'm happy for you
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Post by allison on Aug 11, 2010 3:12:06 GMT
aw, victoria, that is so sweet, and very awesome
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Post by Rhiflect on Aug 11, 2010 10:49:29 GMT
In a few years time you will look back and laugh
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Post by Rhiflect on Aug 13, 2010 14:39:55 GMT
Double post.
Saw my ex-that-i-still-have-a-small-amount-of-feelings-for-despite-having-broken-up-about-three-years-ago in town today. Remebered why I like him so much. Oh lawdy.
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Post by Rosie The Red on Aug 23, 2010 21:08:32 GMT
I'm really confused because I told my friend I liked that guy who I posted about here a while ago, and to start with for a couple of days she was like, 'Aww, I knew it! Blahblahblah', and being really happy for me and stuff, and she said she'd organise some group outing and stuff, so I was like, oh wow okay, thankyou?, but then she was round at my house yesterday and she told me that she remembered that a while ago he told everybody that he was gay. And I trust her completely and she seemed so sorry to tell me so I'm pretty sure he must've said it and been sincere about it. But - reason for my confusion - a couple of months ago I was talking to him and he said something along the lines of people think he's gay because he's quite camp, but he's not actually gay. I don't know what to think.
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Post by helwin tins on Aug 23, 2010 23:14:53 GMT
maybe he said he liked boys and he's bi?
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Post by Rosie The Red on Aug 24, 2010 20:44:04 GMT
I thought about that but then it doesn't make sense to me that he'd tell me and my friend what he told each of us rather than just telling us he's bi?
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Post by lastgoodbye on Aug 24, 2010 22:44:45 GMT
Well if he is what, fifteen-ish like you are, then there's a chance that he doesn't feel comfortable yet explicitely telling people that he is bi (or however he identifies), but he does sometimes mention liking boys and/or girls when it comes up in conversation with friends. You might as well continue getting to know him like you want to, and if you grow a bit closer you can just ask him outright, and if he isn't into girls then you've still made a friend.
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Post by Rosie The Red on Aug 25, 2010 20:30:41 GMT
^This is what I've decided to do. I think my friend was a bit dubious like, 'oh but if you like him then wouldn't it just be worse if you spent loads of time with him even though he's gay', but I don't think this makes any sense because I still really like him so I'd rather have him as a friend than just not talk to him.
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Post by wanderer on Aug 26, 2010 14:30:36 GMT
My ex and I have decided we should see eachother on Tuesday...and I know we'll just end up making up and getting back together even though he is a bad effect on me. We're so different and he's a depressive, alcoholic liar...but ugh. I can't help myself.
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Post by Lauren on Aug 28, 2010 3:34:52 GMT
Long distance sucks when you just want to be hugged and held. =/
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Post by Xteenuh on Sept 4, 2010 6:47:34 GMT
In the week I've been at college, I've become definite friends with two new men... WHO ARE BOTH SO WONDERFUL, SO BEAUTIFUL AND YET SO GAY.
Can someone explain to me why all the straight men here are boring and/or unbearably awkward?! Why are the gays so fucking great?! Their greatness makes me have pains in the heart. I love them for who they are, but god, can't they just like girls for a second JUST FOR ME?? WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE SUCH HORRIBLE LUCK ALL MY LIFE?!
However do keep in mind that while frustrating this is still a bit of an overreaction considering its only been... a week.
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Post by wanderer on Sept 4, 2010 8:55:01 GMT
^ that's typical. It's happened to me too. I don't think there's any way around it...just maybe one day there will be a nice guy who's at least bi?
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Post by victorinox on Sept 5, 2010 2:42:19 GMT
my two friends are trying to sell me on a guy who's pretty nice.
one of them's a girl who dated him. we were standing about to get ice cream and she says, "i mean, i'd just gotten out of a long relationship so i was kind of fucked up but he was a great boyfriend, really."
then she looks away and my male friend holds his hands about a foot apart and mouths, "IT'S THIS BIG".
he's nice to be around and all, and i can imagine dating him, i just don't feel that strongly. i'm not in love. i'm not limerent. i might feel that way later but in the meantime it'd be insincere. i wonder why they were doing that, though?
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Post by newslang on Sept 5, 2010 16:27:17 GMT
I may be in a relationship? Posting this here because I don't know haha. I didn't really think of it as that and then yesterday someone asked us point blank if we were (rude!) and boy basically said yes and I was all quizzically looking around pretending I didn't hear the question.
So... probably?
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Post by Rhiflect on Sept 5, 2010 17:28:45 GMT
Haha well possibly congrats! But you don't have to go along with it if you don't want to.
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Post by tarantella on Sept 5, 2010 20:17:08 GMT
That's pretty cute, Victoria. Congrats! Assuming you're happy about it.
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Post by mimicry on Sept 5, 2010 22:14:38 GMT
I may be in a relationship? Posting this here because I don't know haha. I didn't really think of it as that and then yesterday someone asked us point blank if we were (rude!) and boy basically said yes and I was all quizzically looking around pretending I didn't hear the question. So... probably? Hahaha, oh my. I like this post.
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