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Post by youwantthis on Feb 13, 2007 17:19:21 GMT
Friendly, like a friend with me.
First time drinking with her, so i haven't got a clue. She laughs a lot with me...
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Post by thechildcatcher on Feb 13, 2007 18:47:21 GMT
How would you act if she was a bloke? I ask because it could simplify things. Cos her being a girl shouldn't be something that makes that much of a difference. But it can be confusing, and it can make it feel like a different sort of scenario than it would be, were she a fella. If you really want nothing to do with her you'll just have to be strong willed. But you know, if you really hit it off, work could not be as much of a problem as you think, and it could be worth it. I think your best bet is to be kind and friendly, maybe watch the drink if you really feel out of control. Which is better than ignoring. Hope I helped
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Post by Lawrence on Feb 13, 2007 18:49:06 GMT
let's all become asexual
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Post by yojimbo on Feb 13, 2007 19:09:02 GMT
Wish I had boy troubles = (
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Post by tombland on Feb 13, 2007 19:10:46 GMT
Celibate, possibly? I'm involuntarily celibate. Valentines day is going to be a fucking riot. Actually, shouldn't be too bad. Having a "hot date", where "hot date" is interchangable with "normal night out". Well, cinema, meal, then out. It'swith 2 of my favourite people in the world though, so I can't complain.
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Post by BoyHeroine on Feb 13, 2007 19:13:01 GMT
Is it worng to tell someone in a relationship that you like them, if you sincerely do like them and think they may feel the same way? Or is it best to just keep it to yourself and drive yourself insane?
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Post by tombland on Feb 13, 2007 19:13:48 GMT
Tell them! The only problem there could be is if you're fucking over a friend by trying to get with said person
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Post by sophie on Feb 13, 2007 19:15:24 GMT
Wish I had boy troubles = ( me too instead i have nothing. nothing! not even a crush! it was ok for a while, but now it's getting a bit boring. you could take a couple off my shoulders if you like. i dated a canadian once!
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Post by sophie on Feb 13, 2007 19:16:34 GMT
Is it worng to tell someone in a relationship that you like them, if you sincerely do like them and think they may feel the same way? Or is it best to just keep it to yourself and drive yourself insane? i didn't tell someone when they were free, and now all my chances are lost, and apparently they DID feel the same way. what's the worst that could happen? hah. have you known them long?
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Post by BoyHeroine on Feb 13, 2007 19:19:43 GMT
Tell them! The only problem there could be is if you're fucking over a friend by trying to get with said person Well me and this guy made out ages ago, but i ended up not meeting up with him for a bit and getting into another relationship, he asked me out but i couldnt, then my relationship ended and we made out a few weeks ago when i didnt realise he was in a relationship. We were both very drunk, but his boyfriend saw us and they had a big argument but were fine. I met his boyfriend alast week, he was really nice to me, said he realises we were both drunk. But then they split up earlier this week and the guy i like started texting me all day, then suddenly the next day facebook informed me they got back together and i havent hear from him since. Grrr, its all very confusing, and im not sure if what i just wrote actually makes sense. But my basic plan is get drunk, go to a club we always go to, see him and tell him and end this all one way or another.
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Post by BoyHeroine on Feb 13, 2007 19:20:37 GMT
Urgh, i just read that back, please excuse all the making out-ness, we do actually talk and hang out and have things in common aswell.
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Post by tombland on Feb 13, 2007 19:21:19 GMT
That is the best way. But what a mess you seem to have gotten yourself into!
Best of luck!
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Post by BoyHeroine on Feb 13, 2007 19:24:00 GMT
Grr i know, i hate the fact that i never used to think of him that way, when he really liked me, now im crazy about him, and he is a relationship. Its kinda funny in that not funny at all painful kinda way
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Post by yojimbo on Feb 13, 2007 19:31:06 GMT
Wish I had boy troubles = ( me too instead i have nothing. nothing! not even a crush! it was ok for a while, but now it's getting a bit boring. *sigh* I've never even had a crush with anyone worthwhile
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Post by youwantthis on Feb 13, 2007 19:39:17 GMT
How would you act if she was a bloke? I ask because it could simplify things. Cos her being a girl shouldn't be something that makes that much of a difference. But it can be confusing, and it can make it feel like a different sort of scenario than it would be, were she a fella. If you really want nothing to do with her you'll just have to be strong willed. But you know, if you really hit it off, work could not be as much of a problem as you think, and it could be worth it. I think your best bet is to be kind and friendly, maybe watch the drink if you really feel out of control. Which is better than ignoring. Hope I helped It really did help. Ill fill you in laterszzzzzzzzzzzzetcz.
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Post by alice in wonderland on Feb 13, 2007 22:38:24 GMT
i think we should all make some sort of valentines circle in which we all become someone elses valentine and all partake in a massive online hug and celebrate how cool we are going on a forum on valentines day
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Post by newslang on Feb 13, 2007 22:57:36 GMT
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Post by Jam. on Feb 13, 2007 23:38:17 GMT
I really shouldn't fall for people with boyfriends and neither should you! *sigh*
I hope you all have a really nice valentines day though and even though it's a load of silly materialistic jazz, just let someone know you really really like them a lot.
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Post by birdwhistle on Feb 13, 2007 23:49:11 GMT
I hope you all have a really nice valentines day though and even though it's a load of silly materialistic jazz, just let someone know you really really like them a lot. What a lovely, simply sentiment. Sounds like you've got this whole Valentine's day thing down. I hope at least one of us on this morose little thread has a lovely Valentine's day, huh. With or without an "other half".
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Post by lltoastll on Feb 14, 2007 0:43:24 GMT
OMGZZZZZ that's awesome! as materialistic as Valentine's Day is, it would be better to let people you care about know that they're special, single or attached; it's like christmas but instead of the baby jesus you have that giant chocolate heart to worship.
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